尋找一個唔存在的完美3P對象——「狩獵獨角獸」

What is unicorn hunting?

What is unicorn hunting?

A "unicorn" refers to a situation where a heterosexual male and bisexual female in a relationship invite a third person to join them on a long-term or permanent basis. This third person is perfectly integrated with the couple mentally, physically, and sexually.


點解叫Unicorn Hunting?

Why call "Unicorn Hunting"?

"Unicorn hunting" refers to a situation where a couple sees a third person as prey, rather than getting to know and interact with them as equals. They are more interested in the "unicorn" that exists in their imagination 🦄️.

To be a "unicorn" who must meet a series of challenging conditions (see next page). Finding someone who is willing to play this role is as rare as finding a "unicorn" in a dark forest.


做Unicorn的條件

Being a “Unicorn”

1. Usually a young, beautiful, single bisexual woman;
2. Usually fall in love with both partners equally;
3. Willing to fulfill the couple's sexual fantasies;
4. Unconditionally agree to and follow the "relationship rules" set by the couple;
5. Must not threaten the established relationship between the couple while being a part of it;
6. Must know when to detach and not disrupt the couple's relationship.
It's a rare and challenging role to fulfill.


Unicorn Hunting 的背後動機

The motivation behind “Unicorn Hunting”

The proposer of "Unicorn Hunting" is usually a male.

The purpose of seeking a "unicorn" is often to satisfy curiosity and explore new experiences, or to add some excitement and freshness to the relationship.

Basically, the main existence value of "unicorn" is to become a "tool" to satisfy men's multiple desires.


咁 Unicorn Hunting 其實係咪即係...即係 3P?多元 / 多角戀關係?

Unicorn Hunting = 3P?Multi /Polyamory Relationships?

Although "Unicorn Hunting" shares elements with 3P, poly/polygonal relationships, and open relationships, the former does not belong to the latter.

 

3P vs UH

3P
■ Focus on sexual relationships.
■ The relationship is relatively short-lived, only in bed, rarely involves daily life (such as love);

Unicorn Hunting
■ Involves physical and mental dedication, not just sex.
■ The relationship is relatively long, looking for a long-term role to enter the couple relationship.

Multi /Polyamory Relationships vs UH

Multi /Polyamory Relationships
■ The relationship between all parties is equal and balanced.
■ Each individual's wishes and needs are respected and taken into consideration, with room for communication and understanding between the "third party".
■ The mode of interaction can change through open communication, and all decisions are made through mutual agreement.

Unicorn Hunting
■ There are priorities in relationships, and all parties are not on equal footing.
■ The "third party" is expected to cooperate unilaterally and realize the couple's desires, and the third party's feelings can be completely ignored.
■ The mode of getting along is fixed within the framework established by the couple.

Open Relationship vs UH

Open Relationship
■ Each individual in the couple can have independent sexual and emotional relationships with a third party.
■ As long as there is mutual consent, couples do not need to seek permission from each other to develop a relationship with a third party.
■ Sexual relationships with a third party may not involve any emotional investment.
Unicorn Hunting
■ The third party must develop equal and mutual sexual and emotional relationships with both partners.
■ Both couples must agree to involve a third party in their relationship.
■ Sexual relationships with a third party may involve emotional investment from all parties.


Unicorn Hunting 嘅爭議

The Controversy of “Unicorn Hunting”

■ Stigmatizing non-monogamous relationships - The negative connotations associated with "Unicorn Hunting" can lead to stigmatization of non-monogamous relationships, even though they are different.

■ Objectifying the third party - In "Unicorn Hunting", the third party is often seen as a mere object to fulfill the couple's desires, rather than a person with their own identity, status, and rights.

■ Reinforcing gender stereotypes and labels - Since "Unicorn Hunting" is often initiated by men, it can perpetuate the belief that men are sexually dominant and women are passive.

■ Lack of empathy - In the pursuit of a "perfect" third party, the feelings and needs of the individual can be completely disregarded, showing a lack of empathy and understanding.