Orgasm Gap Between Men And Women?
What is Orgasm Gap？
We often hear about jet lag when flying. It turns out that when having sex, men and women will experience jet lag when they reach climax!
Orgasm Gap (orgasm gap) refers to the time gap between men and women when they have thrusting sex.
How big is the "time difference"?
According to a 2020 survey by The Journal of Sexual Medicine,
Female = takes an average of 13.25 minutes to reach orgasm
Men = takes an average of 5 minutes to reach orgasm
That is to say, the average woman needs at least twice as long to reach orgasm first!
Will there be a gap in the explanation?
- ■Reason 1: Insufficient foreplay
Foreplay can arouse sexual desire~ It is like preheating a wok for cooking, and then perform penetration stimulation after foreplay. It will be easier to reach orgasm if you have a partner. - ■Reason 2: Don’t know the female sensitive zone (especially the clitoris)
Clitoris stimulation is the password for female orgasm~ After understanding the sensitive position of the female partner, and then matching the favorite stimulation mode ( Massage/licking/vibration), get twice the result with half the effort. - ■Reason 3: Sexual inequality
Female orgasms and feelings are not taken as seriously as men~ Despite social progress, women have rights in many aspects (including sex and relationships) There is still room for improvement, with many Focuses showing off the pleasure of the male body.
What problems will the time difference cause?
■ Ended before it started
Sex ends before orgasm, leaving the woman unable to fully enjoy the pleasure of orgasm and making her feel neglected.
■ The woman is passive
In order to avoid disappointment, embarrassment or an unhappy breakup, the woman may pretend to have an orgasm or adopt a passive role, suppressing her true emotions.
■ Impact on the relationship
Sex is an important element of a relationship. If the woman is not sexually satisfied for a long time, it may affect the development of the entire relationship.
How to shorten the "gap"?
1. Learn more about the female body
■ Communicate and absorb more erotic information (such as Pleasure Point IG posts), increase your understanding of the female body, and learn to identify, tease and stimulate female sensitive parts.
■ If a woman can explore her body more and know what she likes, it will be easier for the other party to make you feel comfortable!
2. More + more durable foreplay
■ Don’t be hasty during sex! Sex is a process, you might as well let the scheming female partner turn on, use your hands, mouth, toys, etc., you can even help the female partner reach climax first~
■ Delay the insertion time, and let the female partner enter first when the passion is highest. It can whet your appetite and make you more in sync!
3. Use fun props
■ Long-lasting ring Delays men’s ejaculation: It can make men’s erections stronger and longer-lasting , the electric model can stimulate a woman’s clitoris during thrusting, killing two birds with one stone~
■ Orgasm Essence Stimulate women’s lust: apply some licking on clit Then slowly massage it, the warm and numb feeling will make the lady feel refreshed and wet, and she will take a big step towards orgasm!
