First Night Sex Tips
Preparation (1): Mentally Ready
Through communication, confirm that both parties (or more) are mentally prepared
and that all parties agree that they want to have sex for the first time
Only yes means yes
Preparation (2): Body Ready
This is a step that many people will overlook but it is especially important
Your first time may ≠ people's first time
(if feasible) It is recommended that both parties take a syphilis + HIV test beforehand (Many organizations will provide it for free) This doubles the peace of mind
Preparation (3): Room Ready
Hong Kong land problems are serious, so book a room
Recommended to use the App to rent a day hotel, flexible time
Soundproofing better, comfortable, and private
No need to be afraid of someone in the middle Disturbing/Knocking
Preparation (4): Finger Ready
Cut your nails + prepare your finger cover
Remember to cut your nails to prevent scratches when caressing
Add finger condoms, so at first use your fingers to explore the vagina/anus
are held safe and hygienic
Preparation (5): Condom Ready
Measure your size, buy a Pack of condoms
Replace one every 30 minutes to reduce the chance of Dom damage
It is best to try on beforehand to see if there is any strangulation or discomfort
Practice correctly Condom-wearing gesture
Preparation (6): Lubricant Ready
Bring your own water-based lubricant + wet wipes
Lubricant must be brought, and water-based is compatible with both sex/toys/condoms Not enough lubrication may cause discomfort, lubrication will feel much better
Bring a wet wipe, even if there is body fluids/a small amount of blood, it's all done in one go
Progress Tip (1): Take your time, don’t rush
The importance of the environment
You can play some soft music, dim lights, take a shower/bath
Or bring a massage oil to help each other relax
Spend some time kissing, hugging and caressing and other "foreplay" on, get both parties into the state
Progress Tip (2): Test with your fingers first
Try it with your fingers (cut nails + finger cover)
The first time both the vagina and anus will be very tight
You can first massage with your fingers, and then slowly insert the private parts
A finger Start, then gradually increase to 2-3 fingers
Progress Tip (3): "Kwun Yam Zo Lin" (觀音座蓮) Pose
This posture allows the person to be entered, freely control the depth and rhythm of entry
Reduces discomfort and can be stopped at any time
Face-to-face also adds more expression interaction
And it is easier to align , to avoid Wrong Hole situations
